“When I miss you, I re-read our old messages and smile like an idiot.”

Lately I have been exploring the topic of women, sexual freedom, power, notions of masculinity and how they are all intertwined and play out.  Here is a quick look at my thoughts on being single.  There is nothing wrong with a woman (or a man) being single and still enjoying sex.  Personally, I believe people […]

It is widely accepted that you can grow into love with an individual.  But, does the same hold true for passion?  You be the judge.

Give me a dumb question people ask about love, sex, and relationships … An example — “How many people have you been with?” There is no right answer to that question. How much money do you make? ON THE FIRST DATE?!! REALLY?!! Why are you still single? What’s wrong with you? Can you pick me […]

“Some people care too much. I think its called love.”

In a new video Ludacris sports fake man abs for laughs. Ladies sport fake things, enhancements and even some body trickery at times to be more appealing. Can or should a man use bodymagic/ shapers, lacefronts, airbrushing and extensive surgery to attract the opposite sex or is that a ladies only option? Yes! I want […]

“If you can’t get someone out of your head, maybe they are supposed to be there.”

Janelle Monae thinks women should stop sleeping with men until they are doing everything in their power to push for equal rights for women. The Electric Lady looked stunning on the cover of Marie Claire‘s Fresh Faces Issue, but it’s her words that are really grabbing everyone’s attention. Janelle told the magazine that women shouldn’t […]

The scene with Kandi, Riley and her dad was painful to watch on RHOA last night. I get where Kandi is coming from though she wants Riley to have some normalcy with her dad something she didn’t have; so she encourages Riley to keep trying. Should you force your child to communicate with a parent […]

“True love never dies it only gets stronger with time.”