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Bedroom Confessional — They are in pre-marital counseling, but he knows for a fact that the minister is cheating on his wife with one of his good friends. He wants to stop counseling, but she wants to stay because that has nothing to do with them. Should they stay in counseling with a minister who is a cheat?
- It’s not about what he did in the past but what he is doing now. How can they take seriously someone who is currently sleeping with their friend? It says a lot about people when they can’t make a simple decision not to trust someone who is untrustworthy.
- It is my business if I’m putting my marriage my vows and my heart on the line and take advice. How are you going to teach me when you doing nonsense. If that’s the case recommend a book that support what you may know but not doing.
- For those who have not been to marriage counseling it is about conflict resolution and how to keep God #1 above all else. It is to pull you away from the “I” and move forward thinking only as “we”. The ministers personal life is irrelevant.
- Really – some of the best advice comes from those who have experienced it like the other brother said…this counselor can help him identify all the right hotels outta the way…the restaurants with great Food but rear parking…oh oh and I forgot where all the most Romantic (secluded) spots in town are
- Don’t they use Alcoholics to council other Alcoholics?
- No Once I would have found out it would have shaken my faith in him to give spiritual advice
- It is the message not the messenger. Did he think the minister was without sin. Does not matter if he was an alcoholic or a cheat. A sin is a sin in the eyes of God
- If he doesn’t see his current cheating as a problem and isn’t trying to stop then you can not counsel someone else. You clearly don’t think it’s a problem..
