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A brother is concerned that his woman who travels often for work may be cheating on him because lately she is rolling lots of sexy undies into her suitcases. Should he be worried?   Your Advice You find “trouble” when you keep looking for it. She is not telling the whole truth – he really […]

Magic Mess A woman reached out because she recently found images of transgendered women on her husband’s computer and she didn’t know if she should bring it up to him. They are happy and their sex life is good.   Your Advice What is she gonna do with the confirmation? It’s wild to me how […]

The Mess: A brother wrote me for advice on getting his tomboy wife to be more feminine for their daughters.  He wants his girls to have a positive outlook on being a woman and his wife won’t change. Should he press the issue or let it go? Your Advice: If he met and fell in […]