It was Open Question Night. Check out the listener’s question and my answer below:
Q) Should a married woman tell you she’s not happy knowing u love her, but trying to respect her position? Should a man even be a friend to a woman he once loved?
A) A married woman who wants to stay married would NEVER tell a man interested in her she is unhappy … even if she is. The fact that she is telling you this … is an invitation for you to make the first move so that she doesn’t feel guilty about hooking up.
People who were once in love or still have a bit of love for each other can be friends. There has to be boundaries and respect for new situations. The friendship also has to be above board and it can work. If you are violating boundaries or keeping it hidden, then no you can’t be friends.