Listener reached out because her husband has asked their female friends about being a third in a threesome, but hasn’t asked her about it yet. Should she be mad? How is he doing that before asking her? What if she says no then is he going to take the friend and another friend. Yup, […]

Check out my advice to a listener looking to have a threesome and not blow up her relationship!

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Check out my recent appearance on News One Now with Roland Martin. We discussed the top tips for a healthy relationship.  

Magic Mess A brother wanted to know if it was true that a man should look at the mom if he wants to know what a woman is going to be like down the road. Your Advice No. My mother was an abusive alcoholic…. and I am nothing like her. We are our own woman…. […]

  Magic Mess Brother is unemployed and relying on his live-in girlfriend for financial support until he completes his six month job training program. She constantly brags on other guy’s accomplishments and he feels bad about it. Is he being insecure? Your Advice Definitely she should stfu and encourage him w/ out boasting about others…I […]

The Mess: A brother wrote me for advice on getting his tomboy wife to be more feminine for their daughters.  He wants his girls to have a positive outlook on being a woman and his wife won’t change. Should he press the issue or let it go? Your Advice: If he met and fell in […]