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Sunday Scenario — Some couples say that they don’t fight or have disagreements. Is NOT fighting healthy for a relationship?
- Fighting (yelling, screaming, name calling, degrading comments)…NO…never. Disagreements (mutual respect, acknowledgement, acceptance)…YES… always. The latter means you’re human and evolving…constantly learning and growing which is impossible without opening up to different perspectives.
- The no disagreements part is not good. My experience has been things usually blowup on the back in. No disagreements could mean someone is compromising more than the other. That will come back to bite the non-compromising person in the a$$.
- I don’t think it’s healthy. You have 2 imperfect people in a relationship. No matter how well they get along, they’re going to have different priorities. In any relationship time and money are finite resources. You’re never going to be able to both get everything you want.
- Me personally, after being in a relationship with a woman that was ok with whatever I said I found it very nerve wrecking, I felt like I was living with myself the only thing that let me know she was there was sex. The point of the question to me it’s not about arguing and fighting it’s about having a voice and using it. In all honesty the feistiness of a woman at times is what makes her sexy. As long as not ignorant or disrespectful, I can use a little heat sometimes cause once the fire is lit its on.
- If a husband or a bf doesn’t ever have a simple disagreement with his wife or gf dude more than likely is a pushover and the woman more than likely runs things.
- Not fighting is healthy, not having disagreements is unrealistic. Idk if I would want a woman who agreed with everything I say. I would like to think I am a genius but I like a woman who isn’t afraid to speak her mind in a positive way.
- I can believe the not fighting part but the disagreement is a tad bit hard to believe… Because we can disagree n not fight so I have no problems with not agreeing on everything..
- Some people don’t have to fuss and fight they are able to work it out with calm conversation.
- We have disagreements but no fights. There is no topic that I would not compromise on versus having a fight. I am a laid back dude and at the end of the day I prefer a peaceful home rather than to always have things my way.
