Mariah Carey reportedly paid her back-up dancer that she was dating $25k a month so that he could afford to buy her gifts that she would like during their brief relationship. There were rumors that JLo did the same when she was dating her dancer. Would you give a lover an allowance so that they […]

Give me a dumb question people ask about love, sex, and relationships … An example — “How many people have you been with?” There is no right answer to that question. How much money do you make? ON THE FIRST DATE?!! REALLY?!! Why are you still single? What’s wrong with you? Can you pick me […]

“Some people care too much. I think its called love.”

In a new video Ludacris sports fake man abs for laughs. Ladies sport fake things, enhancements and even some body trickery at times to be more appealing. Can or should a man use bodymagic/ shapers, lacefronts, airbrushing and extensive surgery to attract the opposite sex or is that a ladies only option? Yes! I want […]

“If you can’t get someone out of your head, maybe they are supposed to be there.”

The scene with Kandi, Riley and her dad was painful to watch on RHOA last night. I get where Kandi is coming from though she wants Riley to have some normalcy with her dad something she didn’t have; so she encourages Riley to keep trying. Should you force your child to communicate with a parent […]

“True love never dies it only gets stronger with time.”

I love any project that reinforces for young black girls that their beauty is to be celebrated. A teacher created a fantastic video for young women that celebrates all the wonderful ways we are beautiful. ENJOY!

Sundays are about providing spiritual food for your week. Spring break is on and many of you are trying to not go crazy with the kids home all day. I found a fantastic article with tools for keeping your sanity over the break. CLICK HERE for the list of tips.

You guys tell me all the time how stressful, frustrating and sometimes even disappointing it is to go out on a date. Some of you have stopped dating and others do it but hate it! What are you to do when you want love, but hate the process of getting to it? I found a […]