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A brother is concerned that his woman who travels often for work may be cheating on him because lately she is rolling lots of sexy undies into her suitcases. Should he be worried?   Your Advice You find “trouble” when you keep looking for it. She is not telling the whole truth – he really […]

  Listener reached out because her husband has asked their female friends about being a third in a threesome, but hasn’t asked her about it yet. Should she be mad? How is he doing that before asking her? What if she says no then is he going to take the friend and another friend. Yup, […]

Magic Mess A woman reached out because she recently found images of transgendered women on her husband’s computer and she didn’t know if she should bring it up to him. They are happy and their sex life is good.   Your Advice What is she gonna do with the confirmation? It’s wild to me how […]

  Scenario: A brother has been married for one year and has been put out his house 3 times by his wife because of small things like not answering his phone, being out too late or simply because she is not sure if she wants to be married. He wants to move out and get […]

  Magic Mess Brother is unemployed and relying on his live-in girlfriend for financial support until he completes his six month job training program. She constantly brags on other guy’s accomplishments and he feels bad about it. Is he being insecure? Your Advice Definitely she should stfu and encourage him w/ out boasting about others…I […]

The Magic Mess 52 year old empty nester has been dating agreat white guy for a year and the realtionship is getting serious and she is getting nervous. She wants to know if she should throw him back for a black guy? Your Advice: She waited 52 years…how much longer is she going to wait? […]

The Magic Mess Scenario: She is 26 and dating a 52 year old man for the last two years. He is good with sex once a week, but she wants it much more! Should she complain or keep quiet?   Your Advice: She will end up cheating if she stays She should work with him, […]

Magic Mess A brother reached out because he is still talking and texting his newly married ex and wants her back. He didn’t see anything wrong with it, but wanted to know my thoughts. My Advice Your Advice: No, he is probably just waiting and hoping she crosses that line. The only way for them […]

Magic Mess They lived together four years and one year ago she bought new furniture for his house because he had bad credit. The relationship ended and she wants her furniture back. Her girls want her to walk away, but she can’t. Your Advice: Four years wow! the house and everything would be mine he […]