magic mess

Social media was on fire this week with debate about the good and bad of shows like Empire and My Husband Is Not Gay. Are we taking TV way too seriously? I think we’re reading too much into it. If people want to live like that (reality show speaking) and be portrayed like that, let […]

Video model Vida Guerra recently posted a video of her twerking in a thong in front of the Xmas tree. Vida looks great, but many of the comments were focused on her being over 40 and twerking for the world to see. Many of her fans said that it was TOO MUCH!  Click here for […]

On my favorite talk show — The Talk — the ladies debated this week if your spouse or lover can be everything to you. Most of the ladies felt that the expectation that a lover be ALL to you is unrealistic. What do you think? The only person who should be everything to you is […]

Messy Scenario: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. Sadly to say I feel as though I’m loosing my interest sexually with her. I love everything else about her, but sexually seems as though its lacking. I have been having thoughts of other females really heavy on my head but I’m […]

The Mess: A family member has ended a relationship and the family still deals with the ex. Is this a bad thing or not? Your Thoughts: Forget the ex. They are an ex for a reason. I say it depends. If you already had a relationship with that person and they didn’t do anything “wrong”, […]

Check out my recent appearance on the Bill Cunningham Show. I have so much fun advising all these crazy lovers on the show!

A brother is concerned that his woman who travels often for work may be cheating on him because lately she is rolling lots of sexy undies into her suitcases. Should he be worried?   Your Advice You find “trouble” when you keep looking for it. She is not telling the whole truth – he really […]

  Listener reached out because her husband has asked their female friends about being a third in a threesome, but hasn’t asked her about it yet. Should she be mad? How is he doing that before asking her? What if she says no then is he going to take the friend and another friend. Yup, […]

Magic Mess A woman reached out because she recently found images of transgendered women on her husband’s computer and she didn’t know if she should bring it up to him. They are happy and their sex life is good.   Your Advice What is she gonna do with the confirmation? It’s wild to me how […]

Magic Mess A woman reached out to me because her daughter is going to prom next week and she believes that the daughter is planning to have sex prom night. She wanted to know if it is too late to have “the talk.”   Your Advice It’s never too late to talk with your kids. […]