Magic Mess A brother wanted to know if it was true that a man should look at the mom if he wants to know what a woman is going to be like down the road. Your Advice No. My mother was an abusive alcoholic…. and I am nothing like her. We are our own woman…. […]

Magic Mess: A 42 year old woman dating a 35 year old man has noticed that at family events that he his very interested in talking and hanging with her 25 year old daughter. She feels some way about it, but doesn’t want to come off as paranoid or jealous? My Advice: Sister, mother’s intuition […]

  Scenario: A brother has been married for one year and has been put out his house 3 times by his wife because of small things like not answering his phone, being out too late or simply because she is not sure if she wants to be married. He wants to move out and get […]

  Magic Mess Brother is unemployed and relying on his live-in girlfriend for financial support until he completes his six month job training program. She constantly brags on other guy’s accomplishments and he feels bad about it. Is he being insecure? Your Advice Definitely she should stfu and encourage him w/ out boasting about others…I […]

The Magic Mess 52 year old empty nester has been dating agreat white guy for a year and the realtionship is getting serious and she is getting nervous. She wants to know if she should throw him back for a black guy? Your Advice: She waited 52 years…how much longer is she going to wait? […]

The Magic Mess Scenario: She is 26 and dating a 52 year old man for the last two years. He is good with sex once a week, but she wants it much more! Should she complain or keep quiet?   Your Advice: She will end up cheating if she stays She should work with him, […]

The Mess: A brother wrote me for advice on getting his tomboy wife to be more feminine for their daughters.  He wants his girls to have a positive outlook on being a woman and his wife won’t change. Should he press the issue or let it go? Your Advice: If he met and fell in […]

Magic Mess A lady reached out to me that she has been engaged for five years and is bothered by it. She wanted to know if she was being unreasonable about not just waiting on her guy to start making plans. My Advice: Your Advice: I’ve been a relationship for seven years and will marry […]

Magic Mess A brother reached out because he is still talking and texting his newly married ex and wants her back. He didn’t see anything wrong with it, but wanted to know my thoughts. My Advice Your Advice: No, he is probably just waiting and hoping she crosses that line. The only way for them […]

Magic Mess They lived together four years and one year ago she bought new furniture for his house because he had bad credit. The relationship ended and she wants her furniture back. Her girls want her to walk away, but she can’t. Your Advice: Four years wow! the house and everything would be mine he […]